March, 6th 2014
Last year, I attended many
wedding celebration from my friends. Yeah, most of them are from junior high
school and senior high school. But, I don’t think that I will marry that year
too because my friend married. I
attended every wedding party happily until I know there was something wrong
that I felt when I came one wedding party.
Her name is nur fitriana. She is
my best friend from junior high school until senior high school. She is a
dynamist woman, an activist from one of biggest labor organization in
Indonesia. She was a journalist in Jawa Pos Radar Jember and also a novelist.
She married with Maman, a friend from the same organization. They married in
June 2nd 2013, a day after Pancasila days in June 1st
that become the important days to them because they like Soekarno very much.
Wedding party celebrated in the biggest hall in my town. I went to the wedding
with my other friend from the same senior high school. In that hall, I saw my
other friends came too. We talked about many things while we ate the food. Of
course we couldn’t talk with Nur Fitriana because she was busy in front of us
to take picture with the other guest. When we finished, we went to Nur Fitriana
and her husband to take picture together. Before we went out from the hall, we
got a wedding souvenir. The souvenir is a memoir novel with a title ‘Titik
Balik’. Nur Fitriana wrote this novel by herself. Enthusiastically,
I read this novel until end and I find many reasons why I mustn’t marry
in this year. There were one paragraph that make me so happy:
Maman and I agreed that we
married not because our age is too old. We agreed that we married not to
legalize for sexual relationship, We agreed that we married not only to had the
children. We decided to marry because we certain that we can respect each
other. And sure, We decided to marry because our loved was pure.
At the end. I think that I’m
single and I’m happy. Just it.
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